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Self-Love: Build and feel whole
- Latta Verma Jain
- Jun 19
- 3 min read
Have You Ever Felt Drained or Not Enough?
No matter how much you achieve, help others, or try to stay strong, there are days when you still feel empty, lost, or just not good enough. You might feel like you're always running on low energy, questioning your worth, or trying to prove yourself constantly.
If this sounds familiar, it’s a sign you’re low on something deeply important, but often ignored: Self-Love.
What Is Self-Love in Reality?
Self-love isn't about being arrogant or selfish. It’s the simple, daily act of being kind to yourself, just like you are to your loved ones.
It means:
Respecting your feelings
Taking breaks without guilt
Setting boundaries that protect your peace
Not needing others' approval to feel worthy
In fact, self-love is emotional healing. It helps you feel grounded, manage stress better, and live life with more self-worth and inner balance.
Why Self-Love Is So Important
We live in a fast world—social media, family duties, work pressure—everything asks for more. But if you don’t give yourself enough love, energy, or attention, you’ll start feeling:
Burned out
Overwhelmed
Emotionally numb
Always trying to please others
That’s why building self-love is essential for emotional healing and long-term peace. It helps you feel whole, even when life isn’t perfect.
Signs You Might Need More Self-Love
You constantly seek approval from others
You feel guilty saying “no”
You ignore your own needs
You tolerate toxic people or situations
You feel like nothing you do is enough
You apologise for your emotions
You feel emotionally tired, but keep pushing
If even a few of these sound like you, then practising self-love for emotional healing may be the shift your life needs.
How to Learn & Practice Self-Love Daily
It doesn’t require big changes. Start small, with these simple steps:
Start with awareness
Notice how you speak to yourself. Would you say the same to a friend?
Set healthy boundaries
Say no when something drains you. Your peace is your priority.
Do things that nourish you
Art, nature, music, journaling, or just sitting in silence—it all counts.
Speak kindly to yourself
Affirmations like “I am enough”, “My needs matter”, or “I deserve rest” build inner strength.
Rest without guilt
Sometimes, self-love is doing nothing and not feeling bad about it.
Journal your feelings
Write down what you feel without judging. Let your inner self speak.
Self-Love Quiz: How Much Do You Value Yourself?
Answer Yes or No to each:
I find it hard to say “no” even when I’m tired.
I constantly compare myself to others.
I feel guilty when I take time for myself.
I often talk negatively to myself in my head.
I struggle to accept compliments.
I tolerate toxic behaviour to avoid conflict.
I rarely do things just for my own joy.
I depend on others’ approval to feel good.
I feel selfish when I prioritise my needs.
I ignore my feelings and keep going.
Quiz Scoring & Results
✅ 0–3 YES – Your self-love is strong! Keep nurturing your emotional health and setting boundaries.
⚠️ 4–6 YES – You’re somewhere in the middle. A little more self-care and emotional attention can help you feel more whole.
🚨 7–10 YES – It’s time to pause and rebuild. You might be giving too much and receiving too little—from yourself. Focus on self-love and healing.
Takeaway: Self-Love Is a Lifelong Relationship
Self-love isn’t one big moment. It’s a daily practice. Some days, it’s a warm bath. Other days, it’s walking away from what doesn’t serve you.
Loving yourself builds emotional healing, self-worth, and the strength to say:
“I matter. I am enough. I choose me.”
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💭 Pause & Reflect – A guided space to slow down, breathe, and reconnect with yourself.💬 Let’s Talk – One-on-one conversations designed to help you feel seen, heard, and supported.
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